My view on how to treat women.

*Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through.

*NEVER expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman.

*Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Aggressive men don't make a happy home.

*Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid.

*Do your responsibilities as man, don't leave everything to your woman.

*Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise the kids.

*Don't be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and extended family.The wife and children are your first responsibility.

*Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be considered before your own.

*Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you loved them so much why didn't you marry them instead.

*Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of the children. The children are watching. They won't listen and obey her too.

*Tell your wife she's beautiful even if you know she's looking normal. Women love compliment.

*Don't forget that women also want attention and someone to share their thougts with. Never be too busy for your wife.

*A prayerful man is a better equipped husband. Pray always for your wife and family. Don't leave the prayers to your wife.

*Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her shopping and once in a while, cook for her.

*Please don't forget your anniversary dates. Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg you. These dates mean a lot to women. (Don't ask me why). I also don't know even if I did.

*Your mother should not have the final say in your marriage. You married your wife, not your mum. Let her talk in her own husband's house.

*There are 5 days each month sometimes more or less that you have to say "I'm sorry", "Yes bae (baby or babe) if you want" and "I love you" more than 7 times a day. That's when she's menstrating. - JoeOkat

Comment below if you have any suggestions on how to treat women.